My fiance gave me a really beautiful ring, and I'd been wearing it for about 6 months and I was washing my car with it on and I dropped it in the bucket - I got really scared that I had lost it and started freaking out, thinking what would happen if I lost it.
I knew I'd want to replace it somehow which made me think about having it insured. So I took the ring to have it appraised (I swear I wasn't trying to find the value) and they told me it was cubic zirconia.
At first I was really angry, thinking how could he fool me? But maybe this is what he could afford or maybe HE got fooled.
My girlfriends are divided - some say that I should tell him and break up, some say that it is just a symbol and I need to relax and love it like it was real.
I don't have any interest in selling it and would like to pass it on to my children one day and they might want it too.
I don't know, I am just feeling uneasy about him not being comfortable enough to tell me the truth.